Sex

We already suspected that you'd rush over here!
Having problems with your sexlife? Or did you hope to find some totally new ways to do it?
Well, then you might find this page helpful.

We're here to help you improve one of the most important parts of your relationship by providing you with some totally new insights in your partners sexuality AND (because we know that you were secretely hoping for this) some new positions to try...

Tip #1: Try something new

One of the best and easiest ways to improve your sexlife is forgetting all about that boring bed.
Jump into your car and drive to some wood, preferably one that isn't your neighbours' popular picnic-spot. Unless you have some exhibisionist traits, make sure nobody is watching you before you take of your clothes...
Find a nice tree where he can lean against, so she can 'climb' onto him.

Difficult?
Not really, practise this at home first. Not only will you avoid hurting yourselves, but you will probably have a lot of fun in advance...

Tip #2: Forget being easy-going...

You've known eachother for a while now and you think you know all the places the other likes to be touched, right?

Wrong.

One of the most common reasons for a couple to break up is boredom. After a few passionate months you stop trying new places to touch and reach immediately for the ones you know the other like. But be honest. Wouldn't you yourself like to be touched in a completely new way from time to time? Here's your chance!
Go and sit in you kitchen (NOT in bed, that would only make you take it easily) and touch eachother at the spots we tell you to...

Kiss eachother gently on the forehead. It will make you feel safe and comfortable.
Gently stroke eachothers little toe, of course only after you both washed you feet. These poor little things have been left out of your love-making too long...
Since you've been washing yourselves, you might want to try touching eachother in the armpits, but not too gently. This will only make eachother giggle.
There's one more spot which is always forgotten: the backside of the knees. Because the skin here is very thin, this is a very sensitive place and being touched here will make you really want eachother.

Tip #3: Don't have sex for a while

The best way to want sex is not having it...abstain yourselves from sex for a week or two and you'll see that it is better then ever when you finally allow yourselves again.

One thing is very important here though: Not having sex does not mean that you should touch eachother on a regular basis. In fact, the not-having-sex tric only works if you cuddle and kiss a lot in the mean time, 'cause your hormones will be stimulated by this, but since you don't let it out it gets build up, which will make you ever so passionate when the two weeks are over.

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